Project 140225
All dates are in DD/MM/YY
02/02/25
I went skiing and saw a "Saint Valentine's Party" poster, and I came up with an idea. I will ask out random girls on Discord and see if I can get anyone to hang out with me on Saint Valentine's day.
10/02/25
I started looking at a lot of discord profiles, finding someone who was clearly showing feminine traits in their 'about me'. I ended up making a quite small list of people.
11/02/25
I wrote a message with all of the informations, when I'd be available (14/02 and 15/02), what we could play, and everything. I started sending out the messages to a few of them. Surprisingly, I got a response in less than an hour later. She said she's 16 and rejected the offer.
12/02/25
Nobody else responded yet... I panicked, only two days remained... I sent out a few more messages to some people I scrolled through at random on phone. One of them had "Valentine for hire" in their status. It was probably a scam. :/ jk Two girls responded, both rejections. The first one responded that she's taken and happy. The second one said that she already has a valentine. But out of nowhere, not even two minutes after I sent the message, a girl wrote "Sure!". Perfect, I had a valentine!
13/02/25
I notified the person that accepted, that I won't be available on the 15/02. Another girl responded saying "drop 300", and I was unsure what she meant, so I asked her, and she wrote "$300". I responded that someone already reserved me to be their valentine. She responded "gtfo dummy u a loser; like ong u lying". I do not really condone this behaviour, I tried to be nice and the best thing I was expecting is for someone to say either yes or no, but this is not something I accept, so I blocked her. A girl DMed me "Who are you?" (I was already at sleep at this time)
14/02/25
I responded to the "Who are you?" question with a "I... am Steve" gif, I thought it was quite funny. We had a short conversation about VR stuff, but she sadly was not available for hanging around. The girl that accepted sadly declined, she wasn't home. So yeah, I ended up being alone on saint valentine's day. I joined a vocal chat and started writing this blog.
15/02/25
I DMed all of the girls who did not respond with "if you're reading this at a later date, I hope you had a great saint valentine day!". I contacted some friends of mine telling how poorly this project went. I finished writing the main part of this blog.
16/02/25
The person who had "Valentine for hire" in their status responded with "mb gng hope you had a nice one". Really appreciated the answer.
Disclaimer
Below is the list of every girl I contacted for this project. Of course, everyone is anonymous. This all is just for documentation purposes. I understand that not everyone checks their DM requests frequently. I do not judge anyone, no matter if they responded poorly, responded late, or didn't respond at all.
Click here if you read the disclaimer
Girl 1 🤐
I sent the first message at 11/2/2025, 20:13:20
No response
Girl 2 🤐
I sent the first message at 11/2/2025, 20:15:39
No response
Girl 3 🤐
I sent the first message at 11/2/2025, 20:16:47
No response
Girl 4 ♥️
I sent the first message at 11/2/2025, 20:18:17
Responded at 11/2/2025, 22:08:56 (1h 50m 39.3s after my first message)
Response context: "is 16"
Girl 5 🤐
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 08:17:34
No response
Girl 6 🤐
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 08:22:31
No response
Girl 7 ♥️
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 11:16:00
Responded at 13/2/2025, 23:13:50 (1d 11h 57m 49.7s after my first message)
Response context: "Who are you?"
Girl 8 ♥️
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 11:56:08
Responded at 12/2/2025, 11:57:06 (57.5s after my first message)
Response context: "taken and happy"
Girl 9 🤐
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 11:57:35
No response
Girl 10 💔
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 12:00:10
Responded at 13/2/2025, 18:19:55 (1d 6h 19m 45.9s after my first message)
Response context: "drop 300; gtfo dummy u a loser; like ong u lying"
Girl 11 💜
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 12:18:22
Responded at 16/2/2025, 05:48:04 (after my 'I hope you had a great saint valentine day!' message) (3d 17h 29m 41.6s after my first message)
Response context: "mb gng; had 'valentine for hire' in status"
Girl 12 🤐
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 12:20:29
No response
Girl 13 ♥️
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 12:27:09
Responded at 12/2/2025, 12:28:10 (1m 0.9s after my first message)
Response context: "already has valentine"
Girl 14 💝
I sent the first message at 12/2/2025, 12:47:38
Responded at 12/2/2025, 12:49:03 (1m 25.4s after my first message)
Response context: "Sure!"